The wedding that was

200816Oct

by Grace

My brother got married to the girl of his dreams last summer. It was a long dream they shared - they’ve been together for 12 years! Pristine and I flew to the Philippines to attend the grand event.

The couple had a Catholic wedding, held at a local church. Here are 13 photos taken during the special day and some details on what happens on a traditional Filipino (Catholic) wedding.

I’ll start the tour with the photos of the bride and the groom while they were preparing for their big day in their respective hotel rooms. The bride and groom dress in separate rooms and old tradition even says it’s bad luck if the couple meet before the wedding day.

bride in her room

~ the bride in her room ~

groom and best man

~ the best man is helping the groom ~

It is also considered bad luck to try out the wedding dress so the bride only gave her measurements and prayed the dress to perfectly fit her on her most important day.

wedding dress

When everyone finished dressing up, the bride came down.

bride on the stairs

Dang, she was so ready to face a new chapter of her life!

proud bride

She got into the car that will take her to church.

bride in car

The groom was already waiting for his bride in the church.

groom and parents

~ the groom with his parents (my mother and father) ~

wedding venue

~ the wedding venue ~

The wedding started with the wedding entourage marching to the altar. The bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, sponsors and finally the bride:

virgin road

~ the jittery bride almost cried during the wedding march ~

The groom, waiting at the altar thanked the parents of the bride by kissing their hands. He then received his bride and the wedding mass started.

The typical Filipino wedding means one full mass and within it, cord, veil, candle and coin ceremonies but I will not bore you with the lengthy details.

veil ceremony

~ veil ceremony: to cloth the couple as one ~

cord ceremony

~ the cord ceremony: to bind the couple as one ~

reading vows

~ I do. ~

Finally, the beautiful couple is pronounced man and wife. Congratulations to Dante and Vicky!

wed after 12 years

One day when I finish sorting out all things calling for my attention, I’ll post more random photos of the wedding and at the reception.

{ 17 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Betty October 16, 2008 at 5:09 am

No TT this week. But yours is beautiful! Great idea and a lovely wedding!

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2 SabineM October 16, 2008 at 8:34 am

Fabulous photos! You did a professional’s job!

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3 sealife October 16, 2008 at 9:08 am

The couple is wonderful. I’m sure you had a lot of fun at the wedding:)
All the best for them, and may their marriage to be blessed with Love, Health and Prosperity!!!
You look so much asame with your father:)
The wedding procedure is so much different than our ortodox wedding!

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4 ???? October 16, 2008 at 9:28 am

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5 Robin October 16, 2008 at 10:46 am

What a beautiful wedding, everyone looks radiant.

Her dress is gorgeous, and does fit perfectly. It must be very stressful not to be able to try it on in advance!

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6 Charlotte (Charmed Life) October 16, 2008 at 2:45 pm

your brother look so proud and so handsome …
congratulations to the groom and best wishes to the bride.

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7 Maribeth October 16, 2008 at 3:47 pm

Your brother is so handsome and his bride so beautiful!

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8 Brenda ND October 16, 2008 at 4:08 pm

What a beautiful wedding. Great pictures. My favorite is the bride in her room before the wedding. Thanks for sharing.

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9 Shannon H. October 16, 2008 at 9:44 pm

Such a beautiful wedding. I love her dress. Congrats to the happy couple.

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10 colleen October 17, 2008 at 12:41 am

I especially love the throwing of the petals and #5!

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11 Alice Audrey October 17, 2008 at 1:27 am

What a great wedding! You got some wonderful shots here.

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12 Lori October 17, 2008 at 6:43 am

What great pics…such a nice ceremony. Happy TT and thanks for stopping by. I love that dress!!

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13 Jax October 17, 2008 at 3:30 pm

What a stunning wedding dress!!!

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14 Desert Songbird October 18, 2008 at 4:25 am

Lovely photos. Looks like your camera was working well.

My husband and I had a full Catholic mass, but we had no cultural traditions like the cord or veil ceremony.

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15 SandyCarlson October 19, 2008 at 2:14 am

What a beautiful event. That bride is PERFECT!!

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16 Krista October 20, 2008 at 4:14 am

What a beautiful wedding and of course a beautiful bride! I would have been so nervous to not try on my dress until the day of the ceremony!!!

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17 shelagh October 20, 2008 at 11:51 pm

Aww, They look so happy and handsome together! Terrific photos:)

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