Today’s prompt: You, again

You, I mean me. That is a picture of me with the baby. I simply couldn’t post a picture of myself alone because ‘being me’ right now means I always have this cute little human attached to my body.

I look at this picture and feel sad as I bid goodbye to my no alarm clock days, my unlimited cuddling time with the baby and probably (most likely) miss to see his major life milestones as I go back to work tomorrow. My heart is torned.

And so this is the last prompt/photo theme for the #janphotoaday challenge. It’s been a ride and I admit, it was not as easy as I thought it would be. Thanks for all your comments!

Today’s prompt: Nature

Nature – ah, I hope no one visited this blog and read this post expected beautiful picturesque mountains, clear streams or pretty garden of flowers. I live in a desert land camouflaging as a modern city that is Dubai and this is what ‘nature’ is here.

Nevertheless, still beautiful.

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Today’s prompt: Inside your fridge

The husband and I love cheese so there’s always cheese inside our fridge. These cute little cubes, however, is our new favorite to nibble. It comes in four different flavors: tomato, green peppercorn, cheddar and natural.

I’ve read somewhere that there are opiates similar to morphine in cheese so when one eats cheese they feel a sense of satisfaction. The opiates in cheese also make it very addicting. It sounds crazy or cheesy, but it might be true! These little cubes don’t last long in our fridge!

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Today’s prompt: Light

Beautiful light emanating from inside a clay jar, shaped in star and crescent – typical symbol of Islam, the main religion in the UAE.

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Today’s prompt: Lunch

What’s eating out with a baby in tow? It’s not always fun, convenient and mostly, done in a hurry. We went out for baby’s vaccination and got hungry, decided to go to our favorite Japanese restaurant.

The baby started getting fussy so I ordered these rolls for lunch. It came in fast and I can eat it fast! It’s a maki rolled in reverse (nori seaweed inside instead of outside), with avocado, crabstick and cucumber. Nothing raw for me!

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Today’s prompt: Something you made

I’ve always wanted to make bread – something I can make for my family. Wouldn’t it be great to make it on your own? To know the actual ingredients that’s in it? Luckily, I found a fail-safe recipe for Pain de Campagne (French country bread) that’s a total keeper. The recipe is flexible too – you can substitute white bread flour with whole grain and you can add almost anything to the mixture – olives, herbs, dried fruits or nuts.
If you haven’t made your own bread, why not? It’s inexpensive, healthy and tasty.  Give baking your own bread a try.  I bet you’ll find that a freshbaked, totally natural loaf of bread will convert your entire family and you can say goodbye to the long list of unpronounceable ingredients that are found in store bought breads!

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I’ve been asked, how do you do it? Blogging like you don’t have a newborn to take are of? Like you don’t sleep?

Yes, I have a 12 week old baby whom I love so much, the baby I’ve been waiting for, for years. I love sleeping too, especially after the baby arrived (new moms will know why!). The moment I brought Benjamin home from the hospital, some parts of my life was beyond my control, including blogging and as someone who keeps a blogging schedule and write everyday, I was scared.

Will I temporarily shut down my blog for a period of time until my schedule at home settle down? Or do I write sporadic posts? I love blogging too much that I can’t take it off from my routine. I wanted and decided that this blog stay afloat.

Of course I did struggle at first with c-section recovery (I slept lots) and attending to the demands of a newborn baby during the first few days/weeks. Finding the time seems impossible and I was wondering if the day will come that I’d be able to type a blog post, sitting down properly and using two hands.

Here are my tips for blogging/writing with a newborn in the house:

HAVE THE BLOGGING TOOLS
1. iPhone/iPad – These two has been a great blogging tool for me now that I have a baby. If you’ve been reading my blog before, you’ll probably raise your eyebrows and say, “but you hate the iPad!”. I did hate the iPad. “Did” – past tense. I love it now. Like anything in life, it was all about getting used to something! (Don’t tell me, I told you so!)

I understand that not all have these gadgets but for those who do, this is how I manage to continue blogging. Plus, typing in the iPad/iPhone is effortlessly quiet so when the baby is sleeping, he can’t wake up because there’s no keyboard sound even if I’m typing like a mad woman.

2. Wordress app – if you have either of the two gadgets mentioned in #1 and if your blog is hosted at WordPress (if not, then it should!), install the WordPress app. It’s free. Once you have this installed you are ready to blog.

3. Notebook & pen – The good old trusted friends of mine. Just because you don’t have an iPhone or iPad doesn’t mean you’re doomed. I used to write a lot using the conventional pen and paper. I still do now, sometimes.

FINDING THAT ELUSIVE TIME
I always believe that even though people say they don’t have time (like if you ask them why they don’t exercise) they actually do, if they make for it. Basically, IF you love doing something, you will make time for it. Period.

Here’s how I manage my blogging time:

1. Less naps – As much as my mom nags me to sleep when the baby sleeps, I don’t because I CAN’T. I am a morning person so I can’t sleep when the baby sleeps at daytime unless we had a really rough night. I guess I am lucky that he sleeps really well at night. My soon to be 3 month old baby naps at about 2 hours each time so this is when I can steal some writing time (and do household chores).

Of course I napped right after we came home from the hospital so I can recover but the moment I regained my strength, it was hard for me to sleep when it’s daytime.

2. Typing fast – speed is a time saver. If you can type fast, you’ll be thankful for this skill at this time.

One hand typing? Definitely a skill to master!

CREATE A WRITING STRATEGY
This sounds heavy but simply put, create a plan on how you would want blogging to change . Would you take a blogging off time? Or would want to continue?

Here are the strategies I use, because I chose to continue blogging as much as I can:

1. Write in installments – I don’t stress out on writing posts completely. When an idea pops up in my mind AND I have time, I type it and save it as a draft. Later on, when I find another time, I just modify (this takes less time than starting from scratch!) them.

2. Write something everyday - In the first few days, I’ve had sporadic posting but I never stopped writing. It doesn’t have to be long. It doesn’t even have to make sense. I don’t have as much time as I once did to write. As a result of this, I have learned to accept that I can’t always crank out a full blog post in a day. While at times I can, usually, my posts are written little by little on a course of several days.

3.  Stock pile posts – Doing #1 will gain you lots of posts you can pull out later when you have something more to say. You can then have a blog post to publish to continue your connection with your readers.

4. Multi-task – I told a fellow Dubai blogger Mrs. Dubai when she asked me via Twitter that I write blog posts when I am breastfeeding. But Twitter’s 140 character limit did not allow me to explain more – I only blog while breastfeeding WHEN the baby is feeding while asleep, maybe not asleep-asleep but whe he’s closing his eyes and can’t get off the boob.

I love breastfeeding as it creates a special bond with me and my baby. I love how he looks at me when I’m holding him. See? How can you take your eyes off that sweet smile? I can’t trade those moments with anything in the world, including blogging.

However, when he is feeding while we are lying down and he’s sleeping, that leaves me with nothing to do but stare at the blank ceiling so that’s when I pull out the mighty iPhone and type away things.

Again, it doesn’t have to be a complete blog post.

5. Don’t sweat about it – I love blogging but I don’t feel pressured to do it. This is my free therapy, my outlet, my breather but it isn’t my whole life. If I can find the time, I blog because I enjoy doing it, not because I am pressured to do it.

I cut myself some slack.

With a newborn, the balance of things will shift and you’ll just have to juggle things differently. There are days when I can’t write anything but I can be on Twitter everyday (3 Reasons Why I love Twitter), especially on the wee hours of the night when I can’t fall back to sleep after diaper duty/feeding to connect to other people. Twitter is microblogging – you only have 140 characters to express your thoughts. It’s quick and easy and gives me (almost) the same good feeling as when I’m blogging. (I am @sandierpastures on Twitter, just in case)

Lastly, life with a newborn is exciting. Every morning is an adventure waiting to unfold. Yes, them babies are a handful but they are not babies forever. Now is the time to enjoy them when you can still hold all of them in your bossom, their sweet smelling little heads under your chin.

I will enjoy this special time with my baby, blogging along as I go and only as much as I possibly can. No pressure!

Today’s prompt: Something old

Remember listening to songs and then flipping it to hear more on the other side? Yes I still have this outdated, old cassette tapes!

These were the tapes I brought from home when I came to Japan as a student in 1996. It’s obvious that I couldn’t part with these old things that I’ve brought them all the way to Dubai even if we don’t have a cassette tape player anymore!

Also, pre-skype, pre-email era, I used to buy blank tapes and record my voice to send to my family back home. At most times, I wrote letters, by hand because email is not that popular yet and our school’s computer room is inaccessible except for lecture hours and anyway, it ran a very slow Netscape. And when I am tired of writing by hand, I would record the things I wanted to say in a tape and send it to them. Then family members back home would do the same – it’s always a joy to see my mail box at the dormitory with a bulky envelope: a cassette tape inside!

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