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		<title>By: Sandier Pastures &#187; Blog Archive &#187; World, meet my new nephew</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-177184</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandier Pastures &#187; Blog Archive &#187; World, meet my new nephew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 05:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been very excited for them since they announced they were expecting early this year (despite having tearful episodes with myself, I am geniunely happy for them) and now, the baby has made a grand exit. I wish I was [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] been very excited for them since they announced they were expecting early this year (despite having tearful episodes with myself, I am geniunely happy for them) and now, the baby has made a grand exit. I wish I was [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Melany</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-159966</link>
		<dc:creator>Melany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your reaction is totally normal.  Lots and lots of (((Hugs)))
.-= Melany&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://supermom.wordpress.com/2010/03/07/and-so-it-starts/&quot;&gt;And so it starts&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your reaction is totally normal.  Lots and lots of (((Hugs)))<br />
.-= Melany&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://supermom.wordpress.com/2010/03/07/and-so-it-starts/">And so it starts</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Lorie Shewbridge</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-158673</link>
		<dc:creator>Lorie Shewbridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 17:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Allow yourself to feel whatever you are feeling!  You are happy for your brother and SIL and I am sure they know that, but you are also sad for yourself because you want your own little one - and that is completely normal.  I believe you are taking medication also that is playing havoc on your hormones, correct? So cut yourself some slack and be good to yourself and your beautiful Pristine.  Go in the bathroom, sob it out, wash your face and come out smiling! 
Big hugs and prayers coming from me to you!
.-= Lorie Shewbridge&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wmljshewbridge.blogspot.com/2010/02/disney-social-media-moms-conference.html&quot;&gt;Disney Social Media Moms Conference -  Recap Day 1&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Allow yourself to feel whatever you are feeling!  You are happy for your brother and SIL and I am sure they know that, but you are also sad for yourself because you want your own little one &#8211; and that is completely normal.  I believe you are taking medication also that is playing havoc on your hormones, correct? So cut yourself some slack and be good to yourself and your beautiful Pristine.  Go in the bathroom, sob it out, wash your face and come out smiling!<br />
Big hugs and prayers coming from me to you!<br />
.-= Lorie Shewbridge&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://wmljshewbridge.blogspot.com/2010/02/disney-social-media-moms-conference.html">Disney Social Media Moms Conference &#8211;  Recap Day 1</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Vesta Monroe</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-158480</link>
		<dc:creator>Vesta Monroe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 15:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so sorry honey! I know it doesn&#039;t make you feel better, but at least you&#039;ve got one little bundle of joy.

Vesta Monroe
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.domesticgoddessguide.com/&quot;&gt;Domestic Goddess Guide&lt;/a&gt;
.-= Vesta Monroe&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.domesticgodessguide.com/?p=132&quot;&gt;A Touch of Glamour&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so sorry honey! I know it doesn&#8217;t make you feel better, but at least you&#8217;ve got one little bundle of joy.</p>
<p>Vesta Monroe<br />
<a href="http://www.domesticgoddessguide.com/">Domestic Goddess Guide</a><br />
.-= Vesta Monroe&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.domesticgodessguide.com/?p=132">A Touch of Glamour</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: sheila</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-158418</link>
		<dc:creator>sheila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 22:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Big hugs from you from miles and miles away! :)
Sometimes when we push the sadness away and stop focusing on what we don&#039;t have...and embrace the joy that others are having...the universe has a way of fulfilling our own dreams.   

May sound crazy but it&#039;s true.   Positive attracts positive.  Negative/negative.   Sadness makes you dwell on more sadness and prohibits that positive from coming in.

Go make some pancakes and be happy.   :)
I bet when you give up on the sadness and focus on something else.....what should happen will.  And maybe that&#039;s what you want to happen right now.  And maybe by then it&#039;ll be something completely different.  Time will tell.  :)
.-= sheila&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MaVieFolle/~3/at6tec4awd0/&quot;&gt;Pup-cicles&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Big hugs from you from miles and miles away! <img src='http://sandierpastures.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Sometimes when we push the sadness away and stop focusing on what we don&#8217;t have&#8230;and embrace the joy that others are having&#8230;the universe has a way of fulfilling our own dreams.   </p>
<p>May sound crazy but it&#8217;s true.   Positive attracts positive.  Negative/negative.   Sadness makes you dwell on more sadness and prohibits that positive from coming in.</p>
<p>Go make some pancakes and be happy.   <img src='http://sandierpastures.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I bet when you give up on the sadness and focus on something else&#8230;..what should happen will.  And maybe that&#8217;s what you want to happen right now.  And maybe by then it&#8217;ll be something completely different.  Time will tell.  <img src='http://sandierpastures.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= sheila&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MaVieFolle/~3/at6tec4awd0/">Pup-cicles</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: good luck</title>
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		<dc:creator>good luck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 03:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations!  viky is pregnate!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations!  viky is pregnate!!!</p>
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		<title>By: jennifer in OR</title>
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		<dc:creator>jennifer in OR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 06:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>{{{{HUGS}}}} to you, dear Grace. I&#039;m echoing the prayers of others, and trusting that God is at work in your life.
.-= jennifer in OR&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.diaryof1.com/2010/02/13/i-am-from/&quot;&gt;I Am From&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>{{{{HUGS}}}} to you, dear Grace. I&#8217;m echoing the prayers of others, and trusting that God is at work in your life.<br />
.-= jennifer in OR&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.diaryof1.com/2010/02/13/i-am-from/">I Am From</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: bin</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-158134</link>
		<dc:creator>bin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 08:28:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh grace, I hope and really pray that your wish will come true the soonest possible time.... In the meantime, enjoy and celebrate Pristine. When the younger bro(s) or sister(s) start coming (yes- be specific with you wish), things are going to be very very busy....
.-= bin&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://homestyleliving2.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/i-won-a-gorgeous-top-for-my-baby/&quot;&gt;I won a gorgeous top for my baby!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh grace, I hope and really pray that your wish will come true the soonest possible time&#8230;. In the meantime, enjoy and celebrate Pristine. When the younger bro(s) or sister(s) start coming (yes- be specific with you wish), things are going to be very very busy&#8230;.<br />
.-= bin&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://homestyleliving2.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/i-won-a-gorgeous-top-for-my-baby/">I won a gorgeous top for my baby!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kayla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 03:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw Grace, I&#039;m so sorry your feeling these emotions-Personally, I believe this is normal. Your not going to move on from your condition overnight!! It&#039;s going to take time, just like any other bad thing that happens in life. Time is the healer and in the mean time whether you believe it or not, these feelings are good. It&#039;s GOOD to cry and be angry because if you hold it in, it hurts you further physically, mentally and emotionally.
Love and energies for you dear Grace!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw Grace, I&#8217;m so sorry your feeling these emotions-Personally, I believe this is normal. Your not going to move on from your condition overnight!! It&#8217;s going to take time, just like any other bad thing that happens in life. Time is the healer and in the mean time whether you believe it or not, these feelings are good. It&#8217;s GOOD to cry and be angry because if you hold it in, it hurts you further physically, mentally and emotionally.<br />
Love and energies for you dear Grace!</p>
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		<title>By: Sky</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/depression-personal/its-not-them-its-me.html#comment-158118</link>
		<dc:creator>Sky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:07:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just want to reach out and give you a big hug because I have been where you are.  And it sucks.  Don&#039;t ever, ever give up hope.  Accept everything as it is, and most of all, be happy.  

Babies come into our lives at just the right time...sometimes we have to wait a little longer than we ever wanted too.  

If you&#039;d like to talk, feel free to email me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just want to reach out and give you a big hug because I have been where you are.  And it sucks.  Don&#8217;t ever, ever give up hope.  Accept everything as it is, and most of all, be happy.  </p>
<p>Babies come into our lives at just the right time&#8230;sometimes we have to wait a little longer than we ever wanted too.  </p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to talk, feel free to email me.</p>
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