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		<title>By: Lorie Shewbridge</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/personal-thoughts/a-new-culture-lesson-for-me.html#comment-139480</link>
		<dc:creator>Lorie Shewbridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 02:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll bet if I let someone else arrange my first marriage, I would have missed out on 10 years of H-E-double hockey sticks, emotional and verbal abuse (and the beginnings of physical) abuse. Maybe it&#039;s not such a bad idea.  I got my act together with the 2nd husband and found a real gem, he&#039;s the best!!

I wish nothing but joy, prosperity and love for your collegue for all eternity.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lorie Shewbridges last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wmljshewbridge.blogspot.com/2009/07/off-power-pad-lamp-review-and-giveaway.html&quot;&gt;OFF! Power Pad Lamp &#124; Review and Giveaway&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll bet if I let someone else arrange my first marriage, I would have missed out on 10 years of H-E-double hockey sticks, emotional and verbal abuse (and the beginnings of physical) abuse. Maybe it&#8217;s not such a bad idea.  I got my act together with the 2nd husband and found a real gem, he&#8217;s the best!!</p>
<p>I wish nothing but joy, prosperity and love for your collegue for all eternity.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Lorie Shewbridges last blog post..<a href="http://wmljshewbridge.blogspot.com/2009/07/off-power-pad-lamp-review-and-giveaway.html">OFF! Power Pad Lamp | Review and Giveaway</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Melany</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/personal-thoughts/a-new-culture-lesson-for-me.html#comment-15363</link>
		<dc:creator>Melany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 12:42:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look I don&#039;t know how they do that.  Just go living with someone you don&#039;t know?  Have sex with some stranger.  I don&#039;t know about that.  Imagine THAT first night!  But...that being said...if that is your culture then that is what you are used to and I don&#039;t think it bothers you too much

&lt;em&gt;Melany&#039;s last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href=&#039;http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/05/20/a-whore-in-the-bedroom/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A whore in the bedroom&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look I don&#8217;t know how they do that.  Just go living with someone you don&#8217;t know?  Have sex with some stranger.  I don&#8217;t know about that.  Imagine THAT first night!  But&#8230;that being said&#8230;if that is your culture then that is what you are used to and I don&#8217;t think it bothers you too much</p>
<p><em>Melany&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/05/20/a-whore-in-the-bedroom/' rel="nofollow">A whore in the bedroom</a></p>
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		<title>By: sunjun</title>
		<link>http://sandierpastures.com/personal/personal-thoughts/a-new-culture-lesson-for-me.html#comment-14951</link>
		<dc:creator>sunjun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 17:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>maybe i should go to india ... hahaha
i&#039;m not that desperate yet hehehe

&lt;em&gt;sunjun&#039;s last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href=&#039;http://myfriendsunjun.blogspot.com/2008/05/monk-service-luang-prabang-laos.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Monk Service (Luang Prabang, Laos)&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>maybe i should go to india &#8230; hahaha<br />
i&#8217;m not that desperate yet hehehe</p>
<p><em>sunjun&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://myfriendsunjun.blogspot.com/2008/05/monk-service-luang-prabang-laos.html' rel="nofollow">Monk Service (Luang Prabang, Laos)</a></p>
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		<title>By: Urban Thought</title>
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		<dc:creator>Urban Thought</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 10:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is a guy on my job who had his marriage arranged. They&#039;ve been married for quite some time and have a child together.

For me, I never saw the point of marriage. Let alone marrying someone you didn&#039;t know. It isn&#039;t my culture but I cannot look at someone else&#039;s situation and say &quot;What are you thinking?&quot;

Happy for them if it works for them.

&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought&#039;s last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/289906174/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wordless Wednesday: Apple Date&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a guy on my job who had his marriage arranged. They&#8217;ve been married for quite some time and have a child together.</p>
<p>For me, I never saw the point of marriage. Let alone marrying someone you didn&#8217;t know. It isn&#8217;t my culture but I cannot look at someone else&#8217;s situation and say &#8220;What are you thinking?&#8221;</p>
<p>Happy for them if it works for them.</p>
<p><em>Urban Thought&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/289906174/' rel="nofollow">Wordless Wednesday: Apple Date</a></p>
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		<title>By: CQ</title>
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		<dc:creator>CQ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 08:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve worked with so many Indian colleagues and it never fails to surprise me at how quickly they can find husbands (my colleagues are mostly female Indian nationals) after they go home for their annual leave. They even post ads in the paper to find themselves a partner. I guess, from our perspective, we couldn&#039;t imagine ourselves finding our husbands (or wives) in that way. But if we were brought up in a culture such as theirs then we probably wouldn&#039;t even bat an eyelash!  :grin:

&lt;em&gt;CQ&#039;s last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href=&#039;http://lbquijano.blogspot.com/2008/05/disco-fever.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Disco Fever&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve worked with so many Indian colleagues and it never fails to surprise me at how quickly they can find husbands (my colleagues are mostly female Indian nationals) after they go home for their annual leave. They even post ads in the paper to find themselves a partner. I guess, from our perspective, we couldn&#8217;t imagine ourselves finding our husbands (or wives) in that way. But if we were brought up in a culture such as theirs then we probably wouldn&#8217;t even bat an eyelash!  <img src='http://sandierpastures.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':grin:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>CQ&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://lbquijano.blogspot.com/2008/05/disco-fever.html' rel="nofollow">Disco Fever</a></p>
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